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On a park bench

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I am not someone who is a supporter of sex in public. It's somehow much more comfortable for me to enjoy myself on the bed of my (or her) room than on a park bench or car seat.
It is softer and has more space.

And since I'm not an exhibitionist, I have no great desire for my neighbors or fellow citizens to look at my naked ass.

But you know what they say: "Where the young are, there's fun (sex)".
Because when someone is young, when he has a lot of free time, a lot of energy and a strong sexual drive, he has a girlfriend or a partner, but he doesn't have his own apartment, he doesn't have money for a hotel room, sometimes he chooses a public space rather than his room in his parents' apartment where the sounds would quickly reach his parents' ears.
And then, for sex, outdoor is chosen ๐Ÿ™‚

I used to be so young too ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
And lived in an apartment with my parents, where my every departure or return home was "supervised".
I had the freedom to do whatever I wanted, but some of those things I couldn't comfortably do in my room.
And for this reason, I sometimes chose an uncomfortable park bench or the narrow space of my first, small car.

It was always better to risk getting startled looks from passers-by than "Not getting it".

I remember looking at the elderly gentleman through the window of my car, parked with confusion in the parking lot, when after a few seconds of observation I asked him: "Would you like to join us?".

When the subject of sex in a public place is mentioned, one scene comes back to my memory.
Train drives us through the Vojvodina plain.
Through the window, on a spread blanket, in the young green wheat, next to the road, two in a love ecstasy.
The train driver blows his horn, and the two of them wave to all of us, the observers ๐Ÿ™‚

And me, have I ever waved at someone?
I didn't.

It was cold and it was raining, so there were no people around us ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

One day, a girl I met while I was serving in the military (when I was still young, and absolutely without money and housing - I didn't even have a car), came to visit me and took me out to the city.
We went to the nearby fortress, which is normally very visited, but there were few visitors that day due to the cold wind and light rain.
We went to the ramparts, from which there is a nice view, and little by little, it happened...
We didn't have a blanket, it wasn't warm enough to take off our clothes, but we had the need and desire to cool down our heated passions.
I don't know if someone was watching us from the corner, and it didn't matter to me, I only know that then, in the middle of the day, under the open sky, in a public space, I did what I can tell about today in the topic: "Did you have sex in a public place".
Not even a bench in the park at night, not even a car (at any time of the day), but a visited fortress of a big city, that day was the place where I probably broke some article of the law, and certainly the regulations of the military service ๐Ÿ˜†